Dating – How To Show Your Partner That You Care
November 27, 2009 by Mark Walters
Filed under Dating Tips
Some people are born romantics and, when you see such people effortlessly being romantic and loving, it’s common to wonder why you can’t be like that with your own partner. When it comes easy to people though, like most things in life, it’s because they have practiced at it. Rather than just expecting romance to happen, as if by magic, they have spent time learning what it takes to be romantic. This is something which you can learn and practice too.
You first need to recognize the whole point of being romantic, which is to make your partner feel cared for and special. Then, you need to understand that plenty of little, but thoughtful, gestures on a regular basis is better than the occasional, large gesture. Well, in an ideal world, you would implement both approaches but, start small and regularly first, and then add in grander gestures as added surprises.
So, what exactly counts as a romantic gesture? Well, it can be anything that lets your partner know that you have been, or are, thinking about them. Cost isn’t the issue here; what matters is showing them that you care. Here are some examples to help you get started…
-Send a text message saying how much you love them -Hand write a letter and post it to them -Send a romantic email and attach your favorite picture of the two of you -Give compliments each and every time you see each other -Make it a habit to always kiss your partner when you greet and leave them -Unexpectedly kiss them -Give them hugs and affectionate squeezes -Hold your partners when you are out together -Leave love notes lying around -Call your partner just to say “Hi” -Make cooking and serving candlelit dinners a regular occurrence -Arrange to have an intimate lunch together -Give flowers on days other than birthdays, Christmas, valentines, etc. -Write a romantic poem and read it to your partner -Write a list of the reasons why you love your partner and stick it on their bedroom wall -Giving your partner a slow gentle massage -Phone just before going to bed to wish them sweet dreams
There are of course other things that you could do, but those ideas listed above are more than enough, so long as you follow them through and put your heart into them. By implementing even a few of them, your partner will be in no doubt as to how your feelings towards them. Also, remember, that affection returns affection, so, by starting to be affectionate and romantic yourself, your partner will soon starting responding to you in the same way. Soon enough, you will be romantic bliss!
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