How To Pick Up Women The Right Way

Many a man has been at a bar, spotted an attractive woman and thought to himself, “Wow! She really works those breasts, bouncy bouncy.”

Next, he chugged down some liquid courage and strutted up to her. But within a blink of an eye, she shot him down.

With his self-esteem fried to cinders, he limped away.

Maybe you’ve had a similar experience? I’ve had dozens. I used to be so petrified to pick up women that I thought I had the words “I’m the world’s biggest loser” push pinned to my forehead.

Meeting and approaching women is no easy business for those who haven’t mastered the necessary skills. Let’s take a look at why this is so.

Here’s the thing: more often than not, men pick up women for their beauty alone – and women are well aware of this. They can entrap a man without making a single peep.

Half the time, even if you find them less attractive than the stench of foot and ass combined, they’ll still genuinely believe you’re hitting on them.

This, of course, is about to change. So keep reading…

Catching a glimpse of the average man approaching a woman is a grizzly sight to behold. Think of the woman as a skilled fisherman with something irresistible hanging from her pole and the guy as a dumb fish who’s minutes away from being turned into her dinner.

He may still have some fight in him. But, alas, he doesn’t have a chance. (However, if she sees him as a piece of female eye-candy, there may be a glimmer of hope.)

But unbeknownst to them, I’m not the passive, dumb trout they’re used to catching. I’m a great white shark ready for battle. The second they sense they’ve hooked me in, I taunt them with my own tantalizing bait.

They clamp their chompers down on the bait and my hook slides in – they’re trapped.

Here’s an example. When at a nightclub or bar, my eyes rove around looking for a high foot traffic area – near the ladies room or entrance to the smoking patio, for example. When a girl struts past me I’ll bump her with my elbow.

And then in an overdramatic and offended tone I’ll utter: “Ow…you hurt me.”

A bit flustered, the lovely lady will put her hand on my shoulder and gush, “I’m so sorry.”

I’ll usually shoot back with, “You can touch me but…only if you tell me an interesting story or a funny joke.”

This is not only a bundle of fun but also a powerful means of emotionally hooking a woman.

When the average man’s groin fills with lust for a sexy vixen, he starts coming up with ways to win her over.

In plain English, she’s hooked them in. Anything they do to win her over, reels them even closer.

But I did the opposite: I set the frame that I’m the Prize and she’s the suitor trying to win me over.

Here’s a universal truth about dating and attraction: In every male-female interaction, only one person can be the Prize. Two people can’t chase each other at the same time.

With few exception excluded, you want to set the frame that you’re the Prize and the woman is the suitor trying to win you over.

Josh Lubens, a world famous dating coach, writes under the penname Swinggcat and has coached men how to pick up women for over a decade. On his website, you can get free pick up lines that actually work.