Winning Your Ex Girlfriend Back Takes Effort But You Can Do It

If you’re really serious about winning your ex girlfriend back, I have some effective recommendations for you.

First and foremost, her lost of trust in you is something you need to comprehend. She might still care for you although you’ve broken up, she does not know how she can continue to care for you when you were so awful to her.

Initially, you need to find out why you have been so terrible towards her. Even though I’m not someone professional to say something like this, the truth is that everything happens for a purpose and the results of your actions will come to you no matter how much you despise it. If you can’t figure out why you do and say those things, you’ll stand virtually no chance at winning her back again. From then on, you’ll have to change your old habits, and this will take a lot of commitment and hard work on your part.

When someone treats other people badly, it’s usually because they are insecure. No one would dare to confess their insecurities most especially to themselves, but in most instances, this serves as a reason for our actions. While some will say that money is the root of all evil, being insecure is the worst. When you make up for your lack of confidence, you will start to behave like ‘the man’ among all others. And if you think that she is going to believe that, you may as well think again. If you are looking for some proof, then here it is. This proves that you are not what you think and that you are simply a little child who is afraid of telling her the truth.

It may not seem obvious, but somehow, she already knows about it. This is because it is easy to notice if someone is overcompensating their insecurities to a great extent and since it is a usual behavior nowadays. For example, one man will purchase a deafening motorcycle, whereas another is being violent to his woman and goes on having multiple partners just to show his masculinity. But these babyish behaviors will do nothing to win your woman’s heart once more.

A man doesn’t have to show off his masculinity because it is not a part of the qualities that make up a real man. Trust and respect is not hard to achieve if you start showing positive traits, like being moral, kind and truthful. To become the man you have to be, you need to consider this advice rather than pretending to be somebody else.

After admitting your own mistakes, it will still take time for your girl to have faith in you again. Your words will do little to persuade her at this point because it’s what you actually do that will count. If you really want her back, you’re going to have to show her that you are not the same person who has hurt her. Winning your ex girlfriend back won’t happen overnight. Maybe you’re not as willing as you should be to invest the time it takes to do the hard work you need to do. In said case, it might be best to let her go and find someone who is.

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How To Approach Girls Even If The Thought Terrifies You

One of the hardest things for a guy is how to approach girls. Approaching a girl is not an easy task. Before you approach a girl, it’s a good idea to get some confidence built up to overcome the anxiety of approaching a girl. Figure out what you are going to say and where you are going to meet before approaching any girl.

Let’s slowly breakdown this problem one bit at a time.

How to approach girls with courage.

I can’t lie. It’s not easy for a lot of guys when it comes to talking to girls. The lucky ones are the guys who have no problem whatsoever when it comes to talking with girls. Talking with girls holds a lot of guys back from becoming successful with a woman.

You have to ask yourself why you don’t feel confident talking to a girl. Do you think she will not find you attractive enough? Do you think your conversation is lacking? The problem is there, you just have to ask yourself what it is, and improve upon it.

If you start working out and dressing better, then you won’t feel like you attractiveness is holding you back anymore, giving you the confidence you need. Talking with strangers can build the confidence you need when it comes to approaching a girl.

How to approach girls.

Finding girls can be rather difficult for guys. Rather funny how that works, seeing as 50% of the earth’s population is with women. The globe is covered with so many women. Finding them won’t be difficult, seeing as they need to buy groceries just like you, eat like you, go to work, etc.

The location plays a huge role when it comes to approaching girls. Finding that place is key. If it’s at a favorite restaurant or a book store, approaching a girl will be easier because you’ll have something in common.

If you join a group or a hobby club, it should be even easier to find a great reason to approach a girl. Questions like, how long have you been coming to this group, will be easier to say.

Succeeding in approaching girls.

you feeling ready? You see here standing over there. What are you going to do next?

You need to have something to say. Search for a reason to start a conversation with her. Maybe she is wearing something that stands out, or something she is doing that catches your attention?

If you can’t figure anything out, then you aren’t thinking hard enough. If for some reason there is absolutely nothing that stands out about her, memorize some PUA openers and try them out.

If your confidence level is high and you know exactly what you want to tell the girl, then there is no reason not to approach to girl. By talking with the girl, sooner or later you will know whether this is someone you want to continue seeing. If you two hit it off, get the girl’s phone number and ask her out later.

That’s what you need to do to approach girls. With some practice you’ll see that approaching girls is actually pretty simple, so just go for it! It can change your life and boost your overall confidence. Getting to know someone new is an exciting adventure! That stranger could suddenly be your girlfriend down the road.

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Women Who Step Out On Their Man – The Four Key Causes

Men have little control over whether or not their women step out on them – it’s their grasp of the state of the relationship, and not the reality, that motivates them. For whatever reason, once a woman decides that there’s something missing in your relationship, she’s stepped over the line and at that point, her man’s pretty much helpless to stop her. Even though she’s the one who’s cheating, she’ll blame it on you because she believes the flaws in the relationship are your doing.

Emotional distance, the first of these reasons, is named as the reason for many breakups. The complaint? “He doesn’t pay enough attention to me, we don’t communicate enough.” What do women want? It’s a question that’s been asked for eons, and whatever responses have been given always seem to fall short. In a relationship, a woman wants to have her sense of worth reinforced by her man. If, at the end of the day, she doesn’t feel that sense of worth, she’ll blame her man no matter what he’s really done. A woman who feels her man isn’t doing his part is a woman who’ll look for a man who’ll stay emotionally close to her.

The second reason a woman will betray her man is the feeling of neglect. This is related to the concept of emotional distance, but it’s not the same. Neglect is more behavioral in nature – for example, if a woman “wants her space” and her man takes her literally and leaves her alone, she may think he’s neglecting her because he no longer cares for her. It’s critical that men understand that a woman really does need her own space, so that she can grow as an individual and thus contribute more to the relationship, but if he leaves her alone too much, she’ll cry “neglect!” and start looking for his replacement.

Most women place great importance on their looks. Right or wrong, it’s the root of much of their self-esteem, and a man who neglects to compliment her on her beauty, especially after she’s spent much time on it, is a man who’s risking his woman stepping out on him. From her viewpoint, another man will say and do the things necessary to boost her self-esteem. While most men understand a woman’s need for self-esteem and try to reinforce it, if a woman feels she’s not getting enough attention in this area, chances are good she’s going to cheat.

Finally, a woman is likely to cheat on her man if she simply feels bored and needs a change of scene. Like a monkey swinging in the trees who won’t let go of one branch until there’s another to grab, she’s content to go about the motions of remaining in a relationship when in reality, she’s already written it off and is looking for a new man. It may be easier for her to remain in a relationship while shopping for a new man, but it’s emotionally and morally dishonest, as well as highly inconsiderate of the man’s feelings. She’ll likely find all the same old problems in her new relationship.

Regardless of the reason a woman gives for cheating on her man, the uncomfortable truth is that they probably weren’t suited to each other. The trust and respect that absolutely must exist if a relationship’s going to be successful are destroyed when the woman cheats on her man. Any woman who comes to the conclusion that she’s not getting what she needs from you, and that she’s therefore justified in cheating on you, doesn’t deserve to be with you in the first place.

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A Jedi Mind Trick For Capturing Any Girl’s Interest

The collective male’s attempt at piquing a woman’s interest runs the gamut from demonstrating a lightning-quick wit and sharing interesting stories about himself to doing magic tricks like a clown out of Barnum & Bailey’s circus.

But more often than not, her eyes wander to her cell phone and then meander to the people behind him.

In fact, just about everything in her environment seems to enthrall her except for him, causing a billion and one insecurities to snake into his mind, such as…

1). She must think I am ugly as sin.

2). Does she find me as boring as Velveeta cheese?

3). Do I have the personality of a houseplant?

4). Did I forget to wear deodorant?

5). Is my ego going to be an obituary in tomorrow’s paper?

And if he’s bitter, he might think: She’s like a warm toilet seat – some guy was there before me, another will be there when I get up.

Like a hard working mule, he takes one last crack at making conversation.

But, alas, she stings him with, “It was nice meeting you but I have to go.”

In retrospect, he may think: Damn! That fall-asleep boring conversation piece took the pickup to a crippling halt. It was like the one unlucky drink that shoves a wavering alcoholic off the wagon. I should have never used it.

Most of us have experienced something along these lines.

Many of us have thought: If I only had more interesting things to say, do, or show women, my outcome with them would be completely different.

Although there may be a speck of truth here, most great orators, politicians, and salesmen will tell you, “The content of what you say is far less important than how you say it.”

I’ve seen comedians put an audience in stitches one night yet bomb the next. While the standup routine they used was exactly the same on both nights, their delivery was completely different.

For this reason…

You won’t learn any interesting conversation pieces, cute lines, or fall-on-the-floor-laughing jokes in this article.

Instead…

I’m going to teach you a communication secret that captivates women.

But before I go on, I want you to make me a promise (and, as you’ll see in a few minutes, this promise is for your own good)…

No matter how boring you think you are (even if you think you’re more boring than a 90 year old woman living in a nursing home), I want you to promise me that you won’t change the content of what you say to women for one week.

Here’s why…

I want you to see how adding just this simple secret to what you currently do and say when interacting with women can dramatically increase your success.

In school, you’re taught to finish a thought or idea before moving onto the next. Great advice if you want to plunge women into a narcoleptic stupor.

But if you want women to hang onto your every word, you need to break this crippling habit and start using nested loops.

A nested or open loop is when you start an idea, thought, or story, and instead of finishing it, you move onto something else. In other words, you keep the loop open.

Whenever the human mind is presented with an open loop – unfinished idea, thought, or story – it seeks closure.

Open loops are a form of what I call “tension loops” because they create unresolved emotional tension in a woman.

Even if a woman finds you as interesting and attractive as a sewer rat, the open loop unconsciously compel her to hang onto every word that pours out of your lips and emotionally drives her to see you as a valuable Prize.

Because she seeks resolution to the tension you’ve sparked in her mind and knows that you can release the tension, she perceives you as having value and heeds close attention to everything you say.

Imagine a slovenly bum and a high maintenance babe crossing paths. The bum makes a tragic try at conversation with her by saying, “Hello. My name is Jack and I am homeless. Let me tell you about how I became homeless.”

Chances are, she’d have no interest and scurry off because she finds him aesthetically repulsive, possibly scary, and of little value.

But if he fired an open loop at her, such as, “You know what they say about women with green eyes?” he would probably spark unresolved tension in her body. She’d feel a yen for emotional closure. Closure only he has the power to bring her.

And bada bing, bada boom…

This vagabond she normally would never give the time of day to piques her interest and has value (or Prizability) in her eyes.

Furthermore, open loops can build sexual arousal…

When you spark emotional tension within the context of flirting with a woman it becomes sexualized in her body.

But there’s a facet of open loops I haven’t mentioned yet…

It’s called the “Zeigarnik effect.”

One of the early contributors to Gestalt psychology Bluma Zeigarnik noticed that waiters remember orders up until they serve the food. Then they forget. This led to the discovery that the mind retains the most information when a loop is open.

How does this help you? A woman will probably remember everything you tell her between opening up a loop and closing it.

I want to share with you a powerful application of open loops I learned from watching politicians…

Oftentimes, when politicians are asked a question, they skirt around it for several minutes, talking about almost irrelevant topics, before directly addressing it. This keeps the listener in suspense.

How can we apply this to seduction and attraction?

Here’s an example…

When most men meet a woman they utter their name and then shake the woman’s hand. Usually that’s it. The interaction is over.

An hour – or even a few minutes – later she probably won’t remember his name or anything about him.

Instead, when a woman asks me my name I use an open loop.

I may say,

“When I was a kid my mom told me that she and my dad originally named me Arete, which means all the qualities that make up someone with good character.

And I said, ‘Wow, mom… that’s awesome! Why didn’t you keep the name?’

And she said, ‘Well honey, you’re lucky we didn’t name you Arete because it’s the name of a goddess from Greek mythology.

But we didn’t really give a crap about you having a female name.

The real reason we didn’t name you Arete was that our dog was named Arete – we really loved the name.

And on the day you were born our dog was hit by a car. When we looked at you, we didn’t want you to remind us of the dog. So we named you Josh instead.’”

In lieu of giving her the instant gratification of learning my name I’m using an open loop. This builds unresolved tension inside her body.

Her unconscious mind seeks to bring closure to this loop, inciting her to hang on to my every word.

Had I just told her my name from the get go, she might have judged, “This average looking guy probably lives a boring life,” and then moved onto another man.

But by using an open loop, I had an opportunity to demonstrate that I come from cultured people, have a sense of humor, tell great stories, and possess value (or Prizability).

Plus, due to the Zeigarnik effect, she will remember that I was the guy almost named Arete.

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A Cautionary Tale On How Not To Attract Women

I want to share a personal tale that takes a lurid look at the collective male ego’s pathetic attempt to buoy above survival when trying to win over the woman of its dreams.

Thus far, I have shared this story only with a few close friends.

To be completely honest

I feel almost bashful sharing it with you.

Yet this story is so important to your development that I’m willing to swallow my pride a bit.

When I was fifteen I went to high school with a guy who claimed he was dating a teen model.

Not being the coolest cat in the litter box, he went out of his way to prove to everyone that he was “actually dating her”: he cut out pictures in magazines of her, and even made up stories about the two of them making monkey love.

Everyone mercilessly teased him, seeing through his transparent lies.

In a sad attempt at regaining the smattering of respect people had for him, he promised everyone that she would attend his birthday party.

I ended up going to his party just to prove to myself that this girl was a figment of his imagination.

Long story short, she was real and even more stunning in person. Her cold-as-ice personality sat behind an angelic face draped with blond locks and decorated with piercing green eyes. A skinny cigarette nestled between two of her long fingers. I was in love.

Birthday boy, however, was not “actually” dating her. In fact, she wanted nothing to do with him.

I ended up sleeping with her – that was the good news.

There was, however, a catch: She had a boyfriend.

She let me know that although she enjoyed fooling around with me, she would never break up with her boyfriend for me. This fret a wound deep within my heart.

Then she poured verbal rubbing alcohol on my open wound by telling me that I did not fit the quota for her “ideal man”.

Then she carped, “You don’t act romantic, buy me gifts, or listen to my problems. I refuse to be with a guy who doesn’t do these things.”

The feeling was worse than having your nether regions stretched like a foot of flesh colored taffy.

Did I run as fast as I could from this little ice princess?

No – instead, like a trained seal, I attempted to live up to her “be my little lapdog” standards.

Did I end up winning her heart?

Nope.

When I reached the brink of her high standards, she raised the bar.

Guess what?

I felt even more attracted to her and tried even harder.

The harder I tried, the less attraction she felt for me.

Don’t do what I did unless your sexual preference rhymes with May. Or you’re a masochist.

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How to Save a Relationship

If you are fretting that your relationship is falling apart at the seams and you guys might split up, than you should continue reading some of my personal answers to common questions asked about saving a relationship.

Q: Where do I start in saving my relationship?

A: The first thing you need to do is know for sure that this relationship is important enough to you to save. Your situation might be different, but in most cases, relationships in trouble have someone or both people taking the relationship for granted. Your relationship might begin to fray when you start to forget to show any form of affection.

Q: What can I do to mend my troubled relationship.

A: Blaming one another isn’t going to fix anything. In order to save your relationship, you need to understand that you control your own actions. This may not be easy, but ask yourself some difficult questions. Think about what you have done to make the relationship the way it is, if you want to fix your relationship, you need first improve yourself. Realistically, you can’t expect someone to change for you.

Q: What actions do I take to change my boyfriend?

A: From what you’ve read earlier, don’t expect anyone to change for you. You should love all of him or not at all. People these days believe that everything should be divided in half to be equal. It can be anything from household duties, paying for dinner, or even buying groceries. This could be a perfect way to run a business but it can really negatively affect a relationship. In order to improve a relationship you need to make sure you love and show love even if he doesn’t do dishes or take out the trash.

Q: What can I do to fix the relationship if it is already damaged?

A: If you already know what you’ve done to hurt your relationship, then you should already know what not to do. You just need to catch yourself before you say or do something that can cause another fight. It may be hard the first few times, but with practice it will get easier to catch yourself before you do something hurtful. When you catch yourself, ask yourself if what your about to say is worth another fight or even breaking up. If it’s not worth it, then just let it go.

Q: What else can I do to fix our relationship?

A: Let your partner know that you are willing to do anything to help save your relationship. Just betruthful and apologize for all the things you have done to cause your relationship to be damaged. Don’t make excuses for your actions or try to be smug about it. Get ready to be open andtruthful and be prepared to be be vulnerable. Make sure he is aware that you are ready to do whatever it takes to save your relationship because the relationship is important to you. He might also take apologize for things he has done, but that doesn’t matter. By being apologetic and letting him know you are committed to saving the relationship, he will believe you.

Things won’t get better overnight, it will take time for you to learn what you can do or say differently to alleviate the situation. Being honest with each other and committing to the relationship will make it easier to save the relationship.

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Deceit On Neil Strauss Disclosed

Most every minute more innuendo leak on the subject of Neil Strauss and his mentor, Mystery, someone who appeared on Jimmy Kimmel… A few of the pieces of folklore have been proven right. Yet nearly every ends up being exaggerated. This article was created to set the record straight. That’s because Mystery Method definitely contains many worthwhile tactics to help go about dating lovely ladies. Mike Long has probed the matter and reveals in this letter.

TheGameNeilStrauss has run an in depth probe of Neil Strauss and his guide, Mystery The Late Show with Jon Stewart, has mentored countess fellas ways to enjoy relationships with attractive women. Neil has appeared on the Jimmy Kimmel show We’ve helped tens of thousands of men and been sent lots of thankful letters. During this research on Mystery Method, our probe exposed that Mystery has two most useful techniques, which I feel everyone would desire to learn… Here’s the rundown:

Having a blast is a crucial strategy Neil teaches that may look self-evident but in practice is extremely rare because the majority of situations in social situations people are either already talking to someone or feeling self conscious. The point is the majority of the time is most people aren’t living it up as much as it looks. Mystery points out you can use anything from magic tricks to spinning a girl like you’re dancing in order to liven things up. The upside to be the person helping people have more fun. A relatively effortless approach to give value is using storytelling. Key to mind is to tell stories that subtly share positive qualities about you, like: you are desired by other women. This is the most important idea about yourself you can share because of jealousy. To do this beginning your story with My ex bought me this watch… The point is to subtly imply you’re comfortable around women but not to turn it into a whole production. The biggest gain in doing this is you come off as “safe” but still fun. This is because we want to share value, which distinguishes you from the crowd. One more value to demonstrate in stories is you’re funny.

Another out of the ordinary tactic to begin a conversation with someone new is Opening directly: What I mean by direct is where you convey interest at first… As in: “Nice jeans” The key here is strong self esteem so a gorgeous lady feels nicely respected so you kick off things the most exciting way possible.

The point with each of these tips is to come across as different so as to stand out to chicks who are tired of hearing to the same lame lines like: “What are you drinking?” Women have heard this thousands times and it makes guys seem average. Mystery and Neil teach about separating yourself. For videos and many more lessons from Mystery and I on how to differentiate yourself when it comes to courting beautiful women then visit www.theGameNeilStrauss.com. (You can enjoy a 34-page video book with plenty of in depth techniques for attracting pretty women.)

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Unmasking The Top Misunderstandings Leveled At Mystery Method.

Mystery Method was founded by is a guy with his own VH1 show, called “the Pick-Up Artist and who’s taught thousands and thousands of guys on how to attract beautiful girls for 15 years. Unfortunately for every correct fact about Mystery Method and it’s amazing tactics there are many myths so www.theMysteryMethod.net chose to examine the facts. Mike Long has been searching for answers and unmasks the scoop.

www.theMysteryMethod.net conducted several detailed interviews with Mystery and with his apprentices, and we’ve gone “in field” getting hours of hidden camera video with Mystery and his pupils using Mystery Method tactics to meet lovely chickswith zeroactors or actresses involved. We’ve used the movies we’ve captured to get 3.4 million views on YouTube and to instruct thousands of men to court lovely girls.

Advice on dressing to give you leverage in getting the notice of attractive females is a key value in Mystery’s Mystery Methodmethodology because dressing well can make you immediately appear distinct in a chick’s perception. Mystery has dedicated a lot of focus surrounding how to raise eyebrows. Mystery often dawning a beanie with goggles, a matrix style trench coat and with various piercings. But most of his students can get noticed without going to extremes. Here are some tips: 1) Wear clothes that fit snugly: Surprisingly clothing that are snug look better. This is still the case when in a situation where they have a couple of pounds to lose then it’s still way better off dressing in clothing items that fit snugly. 2) Dress interesting. One idea is a ring or a tight fitting jacket. So that you you make it easy for the girl to have the chance to get excited about something about you.

An different Mystery Method tactic to start a conversation with someone new is Direct ways of saying hello: The idea here is where you telegraph that you’re interested immediately… Such as: “You look hot” The idea here is swagger so any beautiful lady feels nicely respected so you start things the best way possible.

The point with each of these lessons is to act distinct so as to be more exciting to women who are tired of listening to the same tired lines like: “Are you from around here?” Girls have heard this thousands times that it makes guys seem ordinary. Mystery Method is about being yourself but being special For videos and detailed lessons from Mystery and I on ways to stand out when it comes to courting hot members of the finer sex the visit www.theMysteryMethod.net. (We offer a 34-page video book with many detailed techniques for courting pretty women.

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How To Express Your Feelings In A Love Letter – Four Tips

The key to keeping your relationship fresh is to say I love you in different or novel ways. Sending him a love letter is a fantastic romantic gesture.

If love letters aren’t a part of your routine, then a surprise, first time ever love letter will have a great impact. A letter written by your hand will win him over.

Some useful suggestions for using the written word to express your feelings.

1.) Your letter should be composed in two separate steps. The first is the composition stage.

Editing comes next where you clean up mistakes and grammatical errors. Never edit your letter while composing because it slows down and stunts your writing.

When you are composing, write the words down as they pop into your head. During a normal conversation, you usually don’t pause to formulate your sentences, the words just flow from your lips. The same should be true when writing.

Imagine the two of you are together in some romantic setting and you are expressing your feelings. Write everything you say.

Always keep your inner critic silent when you compose. You must actually experience the sentiment that’s being written. That means being in the right mood as you write.

Try playing your favorite romantic music in the background. If the writing seems corny, don’t worry, just keep writing and get those feeling onto the page.

2.) Include some well known love quotations. Placed in the right spot, it will add beauty to the emotions of the love letter.

Quotations of love can readily be found on the Internet. Search for “romantic quotes” or “love quotations” on the Google or Yahoo search engines.

3.) Write your letter in another language. This method is over the top and is not required but it enhances the letter.

Try this if you speak a second language or if someone you know can translate. You can give your partner the translation or insist that he do the translation.

4.) A big part of love letters is in how you deliver it to the one you love. Any method involving surprise works best.

Hide the letter in his briefcase so that he discovers it at work. You can also place it into one of his pockets. There are endless variations to this.

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How To Approach A Woman

Have you ever wanted to talk to a girl but your mind went blank?

Not to worry.

We all have.

And it’s no fun.

On top of that, lots of women close up when they sense a male stranger is attracted to them.

Today I’m going to teach you a simple technique so you’ll never be at a loss for words again with a girl you’d like to meet.

It’s called the “Opinion Opener.”

Instead of letting a girl know you’re attracted to her, you’re gonna ask her an innocent question first.

Most women will be more than happy to give you input. Furthermore, they won’t suspect you’re hitting on them.

The Opinion Opener buys you a few minutes to figure them out before making your move.

But you don’t want to ask them just any old question.

Your question needs to be something emotionally relevant to women – think pop culture, pets, gossip, clothing, love triangles between celebrities, relationships… and so on.

One of my favorite opinion openers comes from the dating coach Swinggcat.

Here it is:

You: Hey girls, I want your opinion on something.

Girls: Go ahead.

You: My next door neighbor just got a baby boy pug dog and baby girl wiener dog. She wants to name them after an ’80s or ’90s pop duet or couple.

(Note: this may seem like a ridiculous question to ask women. But trust me – what was funny and interesting to you second grade is funny and interesting to them now.)

You’ve hooked them into a conversation. Now it’s time to playfully tease them.

Maybe say, as Swinggcat suggests, “Whoever comes up with the best names, gets a thousand dollars. If you give me a good name, fifty dollars has your name written all over it.”

The girls will beg, “That’s not fair. I want at least half.”

Maybe warn, “If you’re gonna act like a brat, you’re getting twenty five dollars.

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