Myths About Dating
April 23, 2011 by Alex Decoto
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Here are some facts that you surely didn’t know about male female dynamics. Most people don’t know that most relationships fail from the start. Why? Because there was no passion to begin with. Even relationships that start with passion fail sometimes, let alone the ones who start out in a cold way. It’s because many people try to force relationships. They try to be friends first and then lovers.
Who ends most relationships and marriages? It’s the woman. In the vast majority of cases, the woman ends the relationship. Why is this so? It’s because women have more power. They have always had more power. Men know that it won’t be easy to find someone new and that is why they cling to their woman. A woman knows that many men are awaiting her and she knows that it will be too easy to find some new men. Hence the abundance mentality.
Most relationships end up with women controlling men. I know that it sounds sad, but it’s true. After some time (if not from the beginning), the woman will start controlling the man. It will start slowly. He won’t even know that it’s coming. She will slowly start demanding more and he will slowly start catering to her. She will see that she can manipulate him and she will do it more often.
Who cheats more? Well, they tell you that men cheat more. If someone cheats more, it’s definitely women. How come? Well, it makes sense if you think about it carefully. Women have much more power. They are able to easily find a guy. Men cheat a lot because they know that they won’t have many chances to cheat. Women cheat more because they have so many chances to cheat compared to men. That’s why women may cheat more.
Do you understand what’s going on now? You have believed in some dating myths. That is over now.
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Men From The Past
April 17, 2011 by Alex Decoto
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My and my friend were talking about something very interesting yesterday. We were watching older movies with characters such as Clint Eastwood. We were commenting how masculine these guys were. We were comparing them to modern guys and I must admit that modern guys don’t stand a chance. Why are modern guys so pathetic? That’s what we are going to talk about today. We will see why they are inferior.
Why are modern men such losers. Look at the movie Iron Man. Do guys like that seem manly to you? Compare them to the raw masculinity of Clint Eastwood and tell me which guy is more masculine. Who is the stronger guy and who is more resilient? Of course it’s Clint Eastwood. He is simple and he is tough. Modern men are full of these weaknesses and sensitivities. They certainly cannot be called real men.
A modern guy has never been in a fight. He cannot handle women and he always kisses up to women. Real men didn’t do that. Clint Eastwood never supplicated to women. Women could not control guys like him. But they can control the contemporary metro boy. They can control him because he is weak. Sometimes, guys like John Wayne were a bit too manly. They were sometimes too macho but that’s much better than too metro.
Women will never start loving guys like Jason Biggs. Women will always go after men like Marlon Brando and Clint Eastwood. You can ask younger women who is more masculine and attractive. They will rather watch A Streetcar Named Desire than Transformers. Women will never stop being attracted to these kinds of guys. They will always prefer real men and they won’t care about what the media or what society tells them.
If you want to be cool and attractive, you have to watch these older movies and you need to emulate these men. They are the true icons of masculinity and women will always love that kind of manliness.
Manly men don’t use the cheesiest pick up lines. They are sane. They are better than sane. They are men. Females love them. Females adore them.
Three Areas Men Want To Improve
April 6, 2011 by Alex Decoto
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There are three areas important to men. In fact, they are most important to all people. Being thin, rich, and good with the opposite gender. The order of importance differs for people, but I can say that men generally want the success with women first (some may put rich before this, knowing that it will bring them more women). Well, here, I am going to focus only on the women part. I am going to show you which are the biggest factors in succeeding with women (which also work for the other areas).
It’s time to stop thinking in short time intervals. No, you can’t get good with women fast. You can’t get rich fast. You can’t become thin fast. I know thousands of various products say that you can, but almost all of them are scams. Success comes gradually. You have to change your entire inner self. Because, people that are successful in these three areas have a different way of thinking than people who are not. Did you notice how most obese people stay obese despite trying dozens of diets?
Only a few years ago, my experience with women was very limited. I was the typical loser. I used to be so depressed before. Today, I am so much more confident that most people don’t recognize me. Only thanks to my inner change first.
You think players never get rejected? Too much rejection is the exact reason to why they are so good with women! They have learned so much through all these rejections. Stop thinking failure is a bad thing. Sylvester Stallone applied more than a thousand times for movies. He got rejected more than a thousand times. And look at him today. Learn from successful people.
Do not quit your journey just because of a few bumps in the road!
Now, getting the girls in general is not easy. Whether you want some pickup lines, or perhaps a boost in confidence… Remember this, there is always help online, so don’t be shy to ask for help!
The Lazy Man’s Guide To Getting A Girlfriend
April 5, 2011 by Alex Decoto
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My friend, you are in the zone where a lot of other men are at. You want a girlfriend, but you don’t want to spend too much money, time, and effort doing it. And I agree with you. Women don’t spend much money, time, and effort finding a boyfriend, so why should you?
Here is the first easiest way to meet women. I really hope that you won’t have to find other ways to meet women. This one is the easiest and the best. Only if you really have trouble with this way, only then search for other ways. The easiest way to meet women and acquire a girlfriend is through your friends and acquaintances. Yes, this is the true way. Almost everyone does it. No wonder, it’s really the easiest way. What if you don’t have much friends or acquaintances? Then you need to figure out a way to meet more people. You can meet more people by joining different groups in your college, school, or work. Expand your interests. Meet more people any way you can.
The next thing on the list is dating events like speed dating, or even online dating. Let me just warn you that online dating is not easy if you aren’t that experienced. It can take too much time to learn and master. Speed dating is awesome though. You have nothing to lose at it. Even if no one picks you, you still gain confidence by doing something like this.
Now we come to my favorite part. I like this because it is almost the fastest way to meet women and you are responsible for how much women you meet. It is approaching unknown women during day or night. The only exception from this are clubs and bars. They are too difficult.
I hope this has helped you.
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Do You Suck With Women? Here’s The Secret Why
April 2, 2011 by Alex Decoto
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I know what keeps most men mediocre with women. It is not poverty or lack of popularity. It is the fact that these men are holding on to something.
So, let’s say that you are in a situation where you have been for a long time. You are not good with women. What do you do? Do you ask anyone for help. Well, most of you guys out there do not. You are afraid that you will come off as weak if you admit that you need help with anything. Your ego is keeping you back more than you can ever imagine. Well, let me tell you that this is your biggest block that you can face when wanting to become better with women.
This even extends to guys who have friends who are successful with women, but they still somehow manage to rationalize that success. They say to themselves that the guy must have a lot of money or that he paid the woman or anything that’s usually completely untrue. The fact is that these guys sabotage themselves. They cannot admit to themselves that this friend attracted the girl simply because he is a social guy that is successful with women. Instead of learning from a guy like this, he justifies it in his mind. He is protecting his ego. Well, he might think that he is protecting his ego. He is just staying mediocre.
That is how I was sabotaging myself actually.
I hope you learned something from this story. If I could start all over, I would not do what I did. I would do everything opposite of what I did. I would admit to myself that I need help with women and I would do whatever it takes to get better. Yes, that includes hanging out with those guys who are successful with women. Stop the hate and jealousy and let your ego go.
In the end, the secret to success with women, is not about things like usingromantic pick up lines or some other technique. The real culprit is going to be, based on how women perceive you. To find out how women see you, take this quiz here.
Becoming Successful With Women Takes Time
March 29, 2011 by Alex Decoto
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You want to get women fast? You want a harem of super hot women right now? Hold on buddy, it doesn’t work that way. It’s a process and it usually takes a lot more time than guys realize. I want you to realize that some people will present so called fast-solution to you, but I will tell you from experience that there are no quick results. It takes time. How much time? That depends.
There is one important factor that will determine how fast you will succeed in this dating world. This factor is called “previous experiences with women”. How much experience have you got with women? Did you ever have a girlfriend? How many women have you hooked up with? Have you ever even gotten physical with a woman? Did you ever even kiss a girl? Did you ever have a relationship with a woman?
So, there are guys who have average success with women, guys who have below average success with women, and guys who have above average success with women. Well, guys who are above average usually don’t get into this journey. The guys with below average success will have the hardest time.
Let’s define these categories. If you are a guy who had average success with women, that you have gotten physical with a woman before or even been in a relationship with one. If you are below average, you have probably never gotten physical with a woman or never even kissed a woman. When I got into this journey, I was below average.
So, if you are below average with women, you will have to work the hardest. In fact, you will probably have to work hard for years just to get to the average category. So, you better start immediately! It is crucial that you get into the field as soon as possible and start meeting women any way you can.
And friend, remember this getting the girls overall is not easy. I don’t care if you need more pickup lines, or perhaps a boost in confidence… Remember this, there is always help online, so don’t be shy to ask for help!
Afraid To Kiss Women
March 27, 2011 by Alex Decoto
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Do you have a fear when kissing a woman for the first time? I know that most men say that they don’t have any problem with it. However, that is not the truth. The truth is that most men can do it, but only when they’re drunk. Shy guys really have fear with this. They get very drunk just to be able to kiss a woman. Sometimes, even that doesn’t help them so much.
Do you drink a lot? If you are a shy man, you probably do. You drink because it gives you confidence to kiss women. Well, let me tell you that drinking won’t help you at all in the long term. When using alcohol, you are only temporarily covering up the problem. You are not dealing with your core issues. In order to take care of your core issues, you must deal with them when sober (only sober). If you continue drinking, you will maybe feel more confident at that moment, but you will be miserable the next day.
In order to interact with women more, you will need to go on more dates. I presume that you can’t get that many dates right now. It’s not important how you get them. You only need to figure out how to be alone with women more.
You should interact with more women so you can get more opportunities to kiss them. You can get more dates. That is one option. It’s important to get close to women because you are going to practice kissing women a lot. In the process, you are going to get many rejections, especially in the beginning. Get ready for that.
So, what is your goal? Your goal is to get closer to women’s mouths as much as you can. That is how you build your confidence. It will be difficult in the beginning. That’s why you will have to practice a lot. With time, it will get easier. You will be more confident. You have to prepare yourself for this hard period.
You don’t need Pick up lines for guys. Get some confidence. Get some self esteem. Take more risks. Repetition is the mother of success.
Start Approaching Women By Reading This
March 26, 2011 by Alex Decoto
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If you have problems with approaching women, I have just the thing you need. I will help you to force yourself (in a way) to approach women. Out of all other methods, this one has worked for me the most.
What are habits? Habits are something we humans do as a result of biological hard wiring. We cannot control it as much as we think we can. Ask yourself, are your thoughts different from yesterday and three days ago? No, they are likely to be similar or completely the same. That is how powerful habits are. We are going to use habits to approach women. It takes more than 21 days to create a new habit. Just to be sure, we are going to round it up at 30 days in this case. Thirty days of approaching women.
Okay, here is the first solution. It involves positive motivation. Your motivation will be some kind of reward. What would you want to get for approaching women for a month? Would it be a nice dinner at a fancy restaurant? Or a nice trip for a weekend? Choose what you like. Then, get a friend and commit to them that you are going to have to approach an x number of women in order to get that reward. If you fail to do this even for one day, you do not get the reward. This is simply awesome. You will visualize your reward every day.
A negative motivator will work better. Fear gets us moving faster than rewards do. Here, you will also contact a friend and give them something that you really don’t want to lose. It can be money or a gadget. You are to approach an x number of women for a month. If you don’t do it, your friend keeps the thing you have them. Nice motivation!
Have a nice journey!
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Understand Women First, Pick Up Women Later
March 25, 2011 by Alex Decoto
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How do women think? How does this differ from men? And more importantly, is it important for you to know? I’d say yes. In fact, understanding how women think is I believe the key to success with women.
A lot of women think similar to us men. I don’t mean that they think about sports and cars. I mean hooking up, kinky fantasies and other social taboos. Most of you would be shocked to know what women think about. It would break your notions of social reality.
We are not the only ones who want to hurt someone when we get pissed. We are also not the only ones that just drift into kinky fantasies at random times. Women do this too.
Women are wondering what people think about them all the time. They are always worried how others perceive them. That’s why they worry a lot about how they’re dressed all the time. Women are too afraid that someone might dislike them. They are always seeking other people’s approval. This includes men also. They think about how to satisfy men a lot.
Women worry a lot about their appearances and attractiveness to men. I know it doesn’t seem this way. Men look like the ones who are willing to do everything for women to like them. Well, women do it too! It’s just that society tells them to hide it. At the same time, that same society tells them that they have to look attractive at all times to people. This makes women worry too much! It makes their lives harder. That’s why they fantasize about many kinky fantasies like being abducted or just taken by a man. It’s normal actually. Women are not weird because of this. They do what we do, just differently.
Women are always asking themselves if they are pretty enough, skinny enough, etc. Why do you think they wear high heels and tight pants? Are you even aware of how uncomfortable those things are? I don’t think so. It is extremely uncomfortable. You are not even aware of what they go through in life in order to look good for people. The trouble is, society tells women its desperate looking to show you’re interest in men, so their neediness for male approval ends up being hidden behind a mask of coldness and rude attitude.
And friend, remember this success with women overall can get complicated. Whether you want some pick up lines, or perhaps a boost in confidence… You can ask me for help!
It’s Never Too Late To Become Successful With Women
March 18, 2011 by Alex Decoto
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If you want to learn to become more successful with women, you have come to the right place. I congratulate you on this decision. Most men are so unwilling to admit that they need help. This hurts their success with women the most. They think that is it wimpy to admit that you need help. Nothing could be further from the truth. If you are one of those men, you should listen to me right now when I say this: Do not let your ego interfere with your happiness in life. It will ruin you. Stop thinking that you know the best and let someone who has years of experience help you. Ask your predecessors, they didn’t even have a chance to improve their success with women. There was nothing back then to help them.
I think you got my point. So, to start out, you can find many books that deal with your issues. They will give you a general introduction and possible solutions. Some will teach you about psychology and how it’s related to your past, while others will give you techniques and pick up lines. Focus on you inner game first, your psychology and your confidence, not the external stuff.
Next, you have various seminars and trainings. A small warning first. Watch out for the many scams out there. You essentially don’t need these seminars to become better. Most of them are a waste of money. So, if you really do decide to take them, research for a couple of months before you invest in them. And also, be careful of getting addicted to them. Some guys just go to these seminars and never improve… They get addicted to the feeling of paying hundreds of dollars, and getting a temporary boost, but never getting anywhere.
Now, you also have personal coaching available. This is much better than seminars, mainly because it lasts longer than a seminar or a boot camp. If you do take personal coaching, make sure it lasts at least 21 day. Also, be careful of frauds and do your research.
In essence, this is all you need to get started my friend. Start slowly, and then progress.
Then again, whether you want some great pick up lines, or or worrying about the right time to ask a girl out. The thing you should worry about is how you stack up as a guy. To get the answers, take this quiz, and read the custom-generated profile.



