Approaching Women The Right Way

March 8, 2011 by  
Filed under Online Dating

The single most important skill every man should have is knowing how to approach women, because if you don’t know how to do this, you’re going to be at a serious disadvantage when it comes to meeting your dream girl…

It’s important that you know how to approach a girl the right way. Let’s go over some tactics that will help you to be more successful than the average guy. Remember a situation where you were going to approach a girl, and before you could even get a single word out, she freaked out and simply rejected you?

Getting rejected right off the bat can be painful, but this is why you need to know the secrets to approaching women the right way! Once you’ve “blown it” with a girl, it is extremely hard to recover. The key to approaching women is to approach them in a NON-THREATENING manner that does not telegraph your interest.

This is all about coming in “under the radar.” Understand: Most women have trained themselves to just REJECT men outright when they sense they are being picked up on. Think about this: if you had homeless people constantly walking up to you begging for change, you’d get pretty sick of it, right? Well, to most women, guys who try and pick them up are no better than that – an annoyance.

However, approaching women can not only be effective, but also fun and easy if you have the know how to do it!

So let’s expand on what we mean when we say the right way is to approach any attractive girl…

First – YOU MUST ACT FAST.

If you hesitate and let the opportunity pass you by, you’re never going to experience success. Giving yourself time to talk yourself out of approaching a girl will never get you anywhere, so it’s important you act quickly and JUST DO IT.

Secondly, know what you’re going to start the conversation with BEFORE you approach the girl. This will make meeting women much easier because you don’t have to spend time thinking of what to say before you feel comfortable walking up to meet her. So having a good pick-up line in your hip pocket to use in these situations is probably a good idea.

Now, when I use the term “pick up line,” I don’t mean the “Nice shirt, want to have sex?” type of line that’ll get you slapped in the face. Remember, you need to be NON-THREATENING!

The best lines usually engage the girl in an innocent conversation. You can do so by asking her opinion on something and then following that up with more questions. An important tip you should be aware of is to always approach a woman at an angle instead of charging towards her like you’re going to war! When you approach at an angle, it’s much less confrontational and you’re going to subconsciously put the woman more at ease than if you approached her head-on.

Remember this golden rule of pick-up: Attraction can only happen when the girl is COMFORTABLE with you! Because of this, it is also vitally important that YOU feel comfortable when approaching women. It’s natural to feel uncomfortable meeting attractive women, but remember – practice makes perfect! If you take the time to go out and practice meeting women, over time it will become easier and you’ll be more comfortable with doing it.

Let me tell you – getting good at approaching women is not going to happen if all you do is read about it or study it! You actually have to DO it so you can build your level of experience. (Trust me, it gets easier the more you do it). If you’re worried about being rejected, just look at it as a game. The ONLY thing you’re doing is approaching women. You’re not asking her out, you’re not trying to get her into bed, your only goal is to carry on some type of conversation.

That’s it! Make it a game by seeing how many girls you can talk to in one day, and then try and beat your score.

Finally, use a “time constraint” when approaching women. This is as simple as telling her you’ve only got a minute to talk to her because you’ve got to get back to your friends or whatever you’re doing.

Time constraints let the girl you’re talking to know that you’re not trying to monopolize her time, and that this will be a quick conversation. Because of this, she’ll be more willing to engage in your talk. If the initial approach goes well and the conversation continues, she will eventually forget you said you can only talk for a “minute” and you can talk as long as you want. The whole point is just to get your “foot in the door.”

Be aware that the dating game is actually a numbers game. You need to meet as many women as possible to find that one special girl who will change your life.

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Attract – Pheromones Secrets: Pheromones Sale And Usage Tips

September 7, 2010 by  
Filed under Dating Tips

Regardless of whether it is a hot date or a lifelong mate that you want to attract pheromone products can give you the upper hand. The pheromones sale and purchase tips that you are about to read, can increase your love life in a big way.

What is the definition of pheromone? Pheromones are chemical signals that are emitted by many species of plant and animals in order to convey messages to other members of that species. For example, danger pheromones warn others to stay away, while trailing pheromones lead the way to sources of food.

The single most powerful pheromones are sex pheromones. Animals perceive interest in each other with these chemical signals that are transmitted to their brains by way of their sense of smell. A lion might follow the pheromone scent of a lioness from miles away, passing up multiple mating opportunities along the way.

There is a great divide in the scientific community, that is often based on the newer vs. older generation. Most of the old school scientists have held the position that humans produce pheromones but are not affected by them. Most of the younger scientists studying this, say that many studies have proven beyond all doubt that potent pheromone products have a real effect on the vast majority of study participants. Their debates are ongoing.

Which laboratory is most important? Scientists who disagree with each other, or the lab that is your own experience? The statistics are overwhelming. When people get to test genuine, potent pheromone products for any real length of time, the vast majority report actual effects that they can not ascribe to coincidence.

I have personally experienced hot young babes in clubs and other social settings going to incredible lengths to get my attention, and I know it is due to the pheromones products, because to look at me, I’m not exactly what anyone could call, a catch. Not even close.

It can not be stressed enough that you must be certain about the business that sells you pheromone products, due to the fact that there are a lot of rip offs in this industry. Some companies sell products that literally contain no pheromones. Others sell products with such a tiny pheromone content that is might as well be none, whatsoever.

There are three things to look for when choosing a pheromone supplier:

1) Do they have a public forum where their customers can freely post their experiences with the products; good, bad or indifferent?

2) Does the company allow trying before buying?

3) Does the business provide a risk free, no questions asked, satisfaction or your money back guarantee?

I feel very fortunate to have located the most reputable pheromone clearing house on the internet. They answer a huge yes to each of those questions. First I got my freebies. Then I came back and bought and have returned many times, never having been unsatisfied with anything I have purchased.

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