Being Direct With Women
November 9, 2011 by Alex Decoto
Filed under Dating Tips
Are you a member of the seduction community? If you are, you have probably learned about being indirect with women. You have learned that this is the way to go. Well, I am not here to contradict that. I admit that it can work if you know how to do it. But I also think that being direct with women can bring you results. I will show you this new side of the story and I will show you how to increase your confidence by being direct.
Let’s first talk about how you can be direct when approaching women. I approach women like this all the time. Unfortunately, direct cannot work that well in a club. But it can work in daytime. Here is what you need to do. You need to be able to approach women by giving them a compliment. It has to be about her looks. You can tell her that she is beautiful and attractive. It really works. Try it and tell me what kind of results you get.
You can generally be direct to women. If you approach a woman and you talk to her, you can tell her that you have just approached her because you want to take her out. If you want to be bolder and experiment, you can tell her that you have approached her because you want to sleep with her. You need to try both and you need to see what kind of results you get. It’s going to increase your confidence.
Be direct with women when they do something wrong to you. If she doesn’t show up for the date, call her up and ask her upfront. Ask her why she hasn’t showed up for the date. Be calm when doing this. Also, if a woman does or says something to insult you, tell her that you feel offended by that.
This is how you build up your character and this is how you finally make it with women.
What about hilarious lines? You actually don’t need those. Humor doesn’t attract women. Courage really matters. Do not forget about this. Humor is for clowns.
Who Choses Partners?
July 10, 2011 by Alex Decoto
Filed under Dating Tips
Who chooses, men or women? Most men will say that men choose. Even most dating gurus will say the same thing. The truth is different though. Truth hurts sometimes, especially in this case. Men do not choose. Women choose. Many guys tend to deny this. Guys who don’t accept this fact usually do not have success with women. I am going to tell you the truth and I am going to explain it in detail. You just need to accept the truth for your own good.
Let’s talk about biology now. Is it biologically normal that women choose? Of course it is. Biology has determined this for us. We cannot control it. Animals cannot control it either. The female animal always picks among many male animals. A female human does the same. When you really think about it, most men even know this to be true. They just don’t want to admit it. But most men act as if they were not the choosers anyway.
Women should choose. It is fair that women are the choosers. Why is that so? Because they are the ones that make babies. Women aren’t choosers because they are better than us men. They do not have a privilege. They simply have an obligation. If men were making babies, then we would be the choosers instead. Do not think that the world is not fair. Women get to choose because of that burden.
Do not deny that fact. You need to accept the truth. It will really set you free. I used to hate women because I could not accept the fact that they were the real choosers. I now proudly say that I have accepted this fact. I am no longer angry at women and I no longer hate them. I enjoy women now. I accept them and I have much more success with them compared to the past.
If you become a real mature masculine male, many women will want you. Many women will choose you and you will be satisfied.
It’s good to finally know the truth. You don’t need chat up lines. You can just focus on your tranformation. You need to act as if you are the chooser.
The Feminization Of The Modern Man
June 22, 2011 by Alex Decoto
Filed under Dating Tips
Modern guys have been complaining a lot lately. They are saying that they don’t have so much success with women anymore. They are saying that women are ignoring them more and more. Why is this so? Well, there is a reason for that. Modern guys must be doing something wrong. What are they doing wrong? Well, we are going to examine that right now. I hope that you are not affected by the modern disease. If you are, you will get help.
What has happened to modern guys? I see that modern guys are starting to look more like to girls to me. Men have become too feminized and this is not good at all. I see it everywhere. It’s in their clothes. It’s something about their hairstyles. I am not surprised that women do not like where this is all going. Women want men. They don’t want girly me. Look at how real men act and look at their appearance. Look at Marlon Brando.
How often do you approach women? According to women, modern guys are not that likely to approach women. This is true. You don’t see men approaching women anymore. Why don’t men do it anymore? I do not know. But I know that women don’t like this. Women are very confused. They want men to approach them but they are not willing to approach a man. Women are still passive and that’s not going to change anytime soon.
Men are too immature. I think that this is the biggest problem actually. Look at your average guy who is 26 years old. He probably still plays video games and goes to clubs. Only fifty years earlier, the same man would already be married and he would have children. He would work and he would make money for his family. He would be very mature and he would be able to provide for his family.
What kind of man should you be then? You should be a more mature and more masculine version of yourself.
You will not need the pick up lines cheesy. A real mature man does not need to use them. Masculinity has nothing to do with them. You simply need to do something different in life. It’s time to transform.
Become A Bad Boy
June 20, 2011 by Alex Decoto
Filed under Dating Tips
Who do women like more, bad boys or nice guys? I think we all know the answer to that one. Women love bad boys. Women are attracted to bad boys and they have always been attracted to them. No one really likes nice guys. Nice guys finish last. But why do women like bad boys so much? They like them because of many reasons. I am going to name some of those reasons in this article. I am going to name some of the most important reasons.
Are nice guys confident? We all know that nice guys are not confident. And this is why women are not attracted to them. Bad boys are very confident. That’s why women are attracted to them so much. Bad boys can make women feel good. Bad boys know what to do in order to make women feel good. Women love the courage of the bad boy. They like the fact that he doesn’t hesitate a lot in life. Nice guys hesitate all the time with women.
Nice guys usually don’t love themselves. Many nice guys actually loathe themselves. Women cannot love a man who does not love himself. Bad boys love themselves. Many bad boys even love themselves a little bit too much. I am not saying that bad boys are the ideal. But I am saying that bad boys are better than nice guys. Women would love to have the ideal guy. Ideal guys are rare. Women would rather have the bad boy in the meantime.
We all know that nice guys are boring. Bad boys are the opposite. A bad boy is fun and daring. He loves adventures and he loves to try new things. Women will never get bored with the bad boy. Most women get immediately bored with nice guys. Bad boys are very unpredictable and women love that. Women love it when they don’t know what will happen next. Women love the suspense and the mystery of a bad boy.
Do you still want to be a nice guy? Or do you want to become a bad boy?
Nice guys are losers. The prize winner is always the bad boy. A winner doesn’t even need corny pick up lines for guys to use on girls. A winner has confidence. A winner is a real man. Become a winner.
Meet Women During The Day
June 19, 2011 by Alex Decoto
Filed under Dating Tips
Do you want to meet women during the day? Meeting women during the day is so wonderful. You don’t have to deal with arrogant women from the club. You meet women like a gentleman. Day game doesn’t take up much of your time. You can do it whenever you want. I am going to tell you how to become good at day game. You will have an advantage of all these club guys out there.
When you go to clubs, you are going out there to meet women. You are going out with a goal. That’s not the case with day game. You will now get out of your house according to your usual schedule. You do not need to go out just to meet women. So, let’s say that you are going to work. When you do that, you will meet women along the way. You will see many women in the street and you will approach some of them. That’s a good idea.
What do you say to them? This one is also easy. You will just be direct with them. You will not use any indirect covert tactics with her (like you probably do in clubs). You will just act normal and sincere with her. You will go direct. You will tell her that you like her. But be honest. Don’t tell her that you like her dress. Tell her that she is very attractive. Tell her that she is very cute. Tell her that you want to meet her because of this. Say what you’re thinking.
How long should you be talking to her? You do not need to talk to her for a long time (you are not in a club). Try to not talk to her for more than ten minutes. You can even ask for her number only after two minutes of small talk. You don’t need to be using any techniques when talking to her. Be normal. But don’t forget to ask for her number. That’s a must. You must always ask for her number. Remember that.
You are ready to meet women during the day.
Be sure to use these these lines. I hope you use them well. Don’t depend on them for too long. They are meant to be used for the beginning. You will manage on your own later.
How To Know If You Need Help With Women
June 11, 2011 by Alex Decoto
Filed under Dating Tips
How can a man even know if he needs help with women? It’s not that hard to know. But many men never ask themselves this question. It’s not time to ask this question. You need to figure out how good or bad you are with women. If you don’t know where you stand, you won’t know whether you need any help. I will help you with all of this. With my help, you will find out where you have the following symptoms. You will see how you are currently doing with women.
Can you easily talk to women? What happens to you when you are in the company of women? If you cannot talk to women and when you cannot relax in front of women, it means that you are shy. You are probably struggling with women. Normal men can normally talk to women. If you have a hard time being near women, you need help. It means that you are shy and you need more confidence.
Let’s say that you are talking to a woman. She likes you and it is time for you to make some kind of move. She expects you to kiss her. You are not comfortable with making a move. This happens to a lot of guys. It’s normal actually. But the problem can be fixed and it has to be fixed. If you cannot make some kind on her, you need help. You don’t have enough confidence in this field and you need to start becoming more comfortable with women.
Can you approach women? This is more of a bonus. Most guys cannot effectively approach women. Most guys cannot approach women at all. You don’t need to know this in order to be successful with women. It’s a bonus and it would be nice if you could learn it. It would help you a lot with women and it would probably fix all of these other areas where you are having difficulties with women.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help. If you need help with women, you will get it. Just don’t try to hide that fact.
Forget pickup lines. Focus on improving. Say that you need assistance with women. Many men need help with women. Most are too ashamed to admit it. Be different from them.
Change In Order To Have Success In Dating
May 22, 2011 by Alex Decoto
Filed under Dating Tips
I am going to tell you about some things that women hate. You are a man and you need to take care of yourself. No one will do it for you. I am going to tell you some things that women hate in guys. You need to see if you are doing any of those things. If you are, you need to change. If you stay the same, you will get the same results. You cannot succeed as a man if you don’t change. You need to be active and you need to improve your dating success.
Women hate neediness a lot. Women don’t like when guys cling to them. And most of the guys out there do this a lot. Do not be dependent on a woman. Do not be dependent on anyone. Women are the ones who always need someone. And women don’t want you to be like them. They want you to be independent and they want you to be okay with being alone once in a while. You need to be cool and you need to embrace aloneness.
Women hate when guys get drunk. I hate this one too. It makes me cringe when I see how guys behave when they are drunk. Men get drunk because they are cowards. They are afraid to be themselves when they are sober. They get drunk so they can have courage. Well, liquid courage is not even close to real courage. Women hate when drunk guys try to hit on them. It’s pathetic.
Do women like shy guys? Do women like when a guy is too nice to them? Women actually hate this. That’s why they date the bad boy instead of the nice guy. The nice guy is too boring and too shy. A real man should not be shy. He should be confident and he should have self esteem. When you are weak, women will walk all over you. And they won’t date you. They will date other guys. They will date confident guys. It’s true when they say that nice guys finish last.
What do you need to do? Stop whining and get a life. Don’t complain too much. Just do what it takes to become a real man.
There is no need to use pickup lines. You can be a man without them. Start being courageous. You need to be ready to change. Be persistent and don’t quit.
Myths About Dating
April 23, 2011 by Alex Decoto
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Here are some facts that you surely didn’t know about male female dynamics. Most people don’t know that most relationships fail from the start. Why? Because there was no passion to begin with. Even relationships that start with passion fail sometimes, let alone the ones who start out in a cold way. It’s because many people try to force relationships. They try to be friends first and then lovers.
Who ends most relationships and marriages? It’s the woman. In the vast majority of cases, the woman ends the relationship. Why is this so? It’s because women have more power. They have always had more power. Men know that it won’t be easy to find someone new and that is why they cling to their woman. A woman knows that many men are awaiting her and she knows that it will be too easy to find some new men. Hence the abundance mentality.
Most relationships end up with women controlling men. I know that it sounds sad, but it’s true. After some time (if not from the beginning), the woman will start controlling the man. It will start slowly. He won’t even know that it’s coming. She will slowly start demanding more and he will slowly start catering to her. She will see that she can manipulate him and she will do it more often.
Who cheats more? Well, they tell you that men cheat more. If someone cheats more, it’s definitely women. How come? Well, it makes sense if you think about it carefully. Women have much more power. They are able to easily find a guy. Men cheat a lot because they know that they won’t have many chances to cheat. Women cheat more because they have so many chances to cheat compared to men. That’s why women may cheat more.
Do you understand what’s going on now? You have believed in some dating myths. That is over now.
Here are some these lines. Try them out. I told you what’s really going on in dating. Now you know how to handle women.
Men From The Past
April 17, 2011 by Alex Decoto
Filed under Dating Tips
My and my friend were talking about something very interesting yesterday. We were watching older movies with characters such as Clint Eastwood. We were commenting how masculine these guys were. We were comparing them to modern guys and I must admit that modern guys don’t stand a chance. Why are modern guys so pathetic? That’s what we are going to talk about today. We will see why they are inferior.
Why are modern men such losers. Look at the movie Iron Man. Do guys like that seem manly to you? Compare them to the raw masculinity of Clint Eastwood and tell me which guy is more masculine. Who is the stronger guy and who is more resilient? Of course it’s Clint Eastwood. He is simple and he is tough. Modern men are full of these weaknesses and sensitivities. They certainly cannot be called real men.
A modern guy has never been in a fight. He cannot handle women and he always kisses up to women. Real men didn’t do that. Clint Eastwood never supplicated to women. Women could not control guys like him. But they can control the contemporary metro boy. They can control him because he is weak. Sometimes, guys like John Wayne were a bit too manly. They were sometimes too macho but that’s much better than too metro.
Women will never start loving guys like Jason Biggs. Women will always go after men like Marlon Brando and Clint Eastwood. You can ask younger women who is more masculine and attractive. They will rather watch A Streetcar Named Desire than Transformers. Women will never stop being attracted to these kinds of guys. They will always prefer real men and they won’t care about what the media or what society tells them.
If you want to be cool and attractive, you have to watch these older movies and you need to emulate these men. They are the true icons of masculinity and women will always love that kind of manliness.
Manly men don’t use the cheesiest pick up lines. They are sane. They are better than sane. They are men. Females love them. Females adore them.
Three Areas Men Want To Improve
April 6, 2011 by Alex Decoto
Filed under Dating Tips
There are three areas important to men. In fact, they are most important to all people. Being thin, rich, and good with the opposite gender. The order of importance differs for people, but I can say that men generally want the success with women first (some may put rich before this, knowing that it will bring them more women). Well, here, I am going to focus only on the women part. I am going to show you which are the biggest factors in succeeding with women (which also work for the other areas).
It’s time to stop thinking in short time intervals. No, you can’t get good with women fast. You can’t get rich fast. You can’t become thin fast. I know thousands of various products say that you can, but almost all of them are scams. Success comes gradually. You have to change your entire inner self. Because, people that are successful in these three areas have a different way of thinking than people who are not. Did you notice how most obese people stay obese despite trying dozens of diets?
Only a few years ago, my experience with women was very limited. I was the typical loser. I used to be so depressed before. Today, I am so much more confident that most people don’t recognize me. Only thanks to my inner change first.
You think players never get rejected? Too much rejection is the exact reason to why they are so good with women! They have learned so much through all these rejections. Stop thinking failure is a bad thing. Sylvester Stallone applied more than a thousand times for movies. He got rejected more than a thousand times. And look at him today. Learn from successful people.
Do not quit your journey just because of a few bumps in the road!
Now, getting the girls in general is not easy. Whether you want some pickup lines, or perhaps a boost in confidence… Remember this, there is always help online, so don’t be shy to ask for help!



