Keep Your Relationship Alive With Romance
October 8, 2010 by Marc Sandford
Filed under Dating Tips
Most women want to be happy and secure in their relationships. Feeling special is very important to them. One effective way of achieving this is through romance.
Romance is a technique that anyone can master. You don’t have to make any expensive or costly gestures. You just have to pay attention to the small things on an ongoing basis. This will show her that you’re thinking about her welfare.
Romance helps to keep your relationship healthy. Just put the effort in and let her know you care. It’s truly as simple as that.
Reinventing the wheel isn’t required when learning the art of romance. You only need to use some of the tips in this article.
1.) Try to escape the routines which make you so predictable. The beginning of a relationship is romantic because of its newness and excitement. Your involvement with her at this time was a big departure from your normal routine. Everything seemed to be exciting, romantic, and new.
By doing new activities with one another, you will recapture that romantic feeling of excitement. Stay clear of the your typical dating routines. Search through the local newspaper for ideas that you’ve never tried before.
2.) Give her a romance novel featuring you and her as the main characters of the plot. Unless you are a writer, don’t try and write this yourself.
The easier way is to download a romance novel that’s not copyrighted (in the public domain). Using a text editor, do a search and replace operation that swaps your names with those of the main characters. Print it out and bind it with a hard cover.
To get a copyright-free romance novel, use Google and enter “romance novels public domain” as your search query. There ought to be plenty of downloads for free.
To find out how to get it bound, use a search engine and search for “bind a book”. There will be lots of tutorials as well as services that will bind your novel for you.
3.) If you try giving her a gift without wrapping it, she’ll assume that gift giving is just a another routine task for you. Not only should you wrap her presents, you’ll have to give it some extra attention.
The fancier the wrapping is, the greater her appreciation. At minimum there should be a card, ribbons, and quality wrapping paper. Gift wrapping is absolutely essential otherwise you’re just wasting time and money.
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Want More Romance? Try Charming Her
November 29, 2009 by Marc Sandford
Filed under Dating Tips
A lot of romance advice ask you to do things that can be rather gimmicky. While this is a valid approach, another way to be more romantic relies less on planned external activities and more on improving how you interact with your partner. This improvement or enhancement is often called charm.
If you’re a plain spoken, matter of fact type of person and you start treating your partner with charm, you’re going to see big improvements in your love life. Contrast is very powerful when it comes to making your woman take notice. She’s going to be very intrigued by the new you.
Charm comes naturally to some, but there’s hope for the rest of us because with practice, anyone can learn it. Three tips:
1.) Take note of what makes her feel good or smile.
If you have been with your partner for a while and already know her well, there will always be subtle things that you should look for. There could also be things happening on a day to day basis that makes her feel good.
Listen and observe these things. If you say or do anything that makes her happy, keep doing it.
Keep mental notes of these things for future use. She’ll be immensely pleased when even the smallest things about her don’t escape you.
2.) Have a good sense of humor.
Another approach to making her feel good is being funny. It doesn’t have to be slap-stick, just look for the lighter side of life. Being playful can be very effective.
Be cautious about triggering any of her vulnerabilities or insecurities. Humor is a very spontaneous thing that doesn’t allow much time to reflect on the pros and cons of the humorous remark.
3.) Be exuberant in how you live out your life.
Always find the good in people and the world around you. Enjoy every occasion. Put your whole heart into the things that you do.
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The First Kiss – Will It Make Or Break Your Romance?
November 3, 2009 by Marc Sandford
Filed under Dating Tips
In a new relationship, your first kiss is often a very anxious time. It’s an awkward moment for most men, especially those who haven’t dated in a while.
You have good reason to be anxious about your first kiss. The very first kiss is for many women, a means of assessing a man’s compatibility.
How you initiate the kiss is just as important as the execution of the kiss itself. There are a number of complex cues both romantic and chemical that women pick up on.
It’s a mistake to think of this all important act as just some ritual that you have to get out of the way. Three tips on getting it right.
1.) You won’t make a great impression if you ask for her permission.
This doesn’t mean that you can just grab her and start kissing because you’re feeling aroused. Instead you must gauge when the moment is right. If there is sexual tension between both of you and she is showing signs of attraction for you, then seize the moment and kiss her.
Asking her for her permission diminishes the chemistry or “spark” of the kiss. It can cause you to appear indecisive and weak. Women expect to be swept off their feet by a confident and strong man. Now is the time, you must take charge of this moment.
2.) Know her signs of attraction.
Does she find excuses to touch you such as wanting to read your palm? Perhaps she’ll stumble and hold on to you for support. Does she “accidentally” bush her hand across yours?
Eye contact is also important. Do you catch her stealing glances at you? Is there prolonged eye contact?
Do her eyes roam over your face? Her eyes may linger at your lips. Does she lean in close to you?
Maybe she’s slightly nervous? She may even fix or adjust her hair in your presence. Are the pupils in her eyes dilated?
3.) Begin the kiss very slowly.
Lean in closer, take her hand, gaze at her lips, her mouth. If there is no resistance, gently kiss her. A variation to this is to gently play with her hair or cradle her face with your hands before you kiss.
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