Want More Romance? Try Charming Her
November 29, 2009 by Marc Sandford
Filed under Dating Tips
A lot of romance advice ask you to do things that can be rather gimmicky. While this is a valid approach, another way to be more romantic relies less on planned external activities and more on improving how you interact with your partner. This improvement or enhancement is often called charm.
If you’re a plain spoken, matter of fact type of person and you start treating your partner with charm, you’re going to see big improvements in your love life. Contrast is very powerful when it comes to making your woman take notice. She’s going to be very intrigued by the new you.
Charm comes naturally to some, but there’s hope for the rest of us because with practice, anyone can learn it. Three tips:
1.) Take note of what makes her feel good or smile.
If you have been with your partner for a while and already know her well, there will always be subtle things that you should look for. There could also be things happening on a day to day basis that makes her feel good.
Listen and observe these things. If you say or do anything that makes her happy, keep doing it.
Keep mental notes of these things for future use. She’ll be immensely pleased when even the smallest things about her don’t escape you.
2.) Have a good sense of humor.
Another approach to making her feel good is being funny. It doesn’t have to be slap-stick, just look for the lighter side of life. Being playful can be very effective.
Be cautious about triggering any of her vulnerabilities or insecurities. Humor is a very spontaneous thing that doesn’t allow much time to reflect on the pros and cons of the humorous remark.
3.) Be exuberant in how you live out your life.
Always find the good in people and the world around you. Enjoy every occasion. Put your whole heart into the things that you do.
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